So yes it's been a while between posts. A lot has happened and I didn't have the energy to write about it. I'm going to try to get back into documenting our efforts so please bear with me.
Pictured: an accurate representation of both my life and the fact that I've been consuming a lot of Korean media lately.
What prompted this post was sheer exasperation. My husband and I have been through so, so much over the last year in particular but the last couple of months we're been having a good run where people haven't been asking us about our family plans.
Well yesterday that good run got derailed hard. One of my good friends and a former workmate cut and dyed her hair for leukaemia research. As it affected her partner, she was pretty emotional but we were all there for her. After everyone left, I hung back to have a catch up because it had been a while. After a bit of chin wag , that question came out.
I deflected by mumbling a quick "Well nothing has happened yet" then i started harping on about how much smarter my niece is than the average university student. I left shortly afterwards.
It's such a loaded question, I don't know why anyone would all that question even though it sounds so innocent. But people who have never experienced difficulties or heartbreak don't think about it.
